You described the complexities, the valleys and peaks of marriage perfectly. I When I was married I did feel like I was getting married because I was supposed to for every one else. I was in love with the idea of having a wife. We definately had our highs and tpwards the ends there were lows. Only someone that was married could write what you wrote. It really touched my soul how you highlihted the good and bad. I agree with the structure because being single I don't have that same structure in my life. This was an excellent and relatable read Noelle.