This was such a relatable read. So much good wisdom here. I was once married and as perfect for me as she was honestly it felt like I was just going along with what I was supposed to do at my age even though I wasn’t mentally, spiritually or financially prepared for a marriage. I needed more pragmatic and less idealistic and dreamy because guess what? When that hopeful love wears off and your partner is no longer investing in the relationship trust me realism and rational thought will kick in. For them. They will begin to do what’s in their own best interest. So it’s best to do what’s best for yours in the beginning. I no longer get distracted by the newness. I look for consistency.