This was a charming article and a reminder of such a beautiful part of the courting phase. I miss the slow burn crushes in the pre digital days as well. My crushes have evolved and adapted. Mine these days are admiration and inspiration. I even have woman writers that I revere so much it probably would be a crush in person. It's when I just respect you as a human being and artist . I love the world they create with words. I enjoyed Jimmy Fallons'a dn his wife's story. They keep their marriage sacred. You rarely see them. This was a great read. Thank you!