This is excellent straight to the point advice on how to get through a divorce. I think the pragmatic approach is needed because emotions are very high. I had a peaceful divorce but I dealt with a lot of pain on my journey of self discovery afterwards. Getting in new relationships just put a band aid on it. Healing takes time. I think therapy is a great idea for both parties because it could be beneficial having a neutral and objective person to talk to. I never had therapy but I took a lot of time alone to reflect and get to know me.