It's true. I always thought of myself as a good listener but sometimes I had women who would bombard me with so much information. I went to sleep one time a woman I'm with was talking. I'm more mindful now because I have a lot on my mind and I want a woman to really listen to me so I would want to be present with her. I had to grow as a human being. Attention spans are short in general these days because everything moves so fast. So many people need to get over themselves. That's why they don't listen. So I was one of these men you speak of but I evolved.