I'm so glad I read that because I fell into that nice guy category for many years. I didn't have hidden agendas but for some reasom I was comfortable in the friend zone and that was because I didn't have the confidence to be assertive with my intentons. I was too laid back. I also would get too emotionally attached to women which was probably a turn off. I understand now wome like it when a man has other things going on outside of them. I've so much over the years. I'm wiser and more discerning and clear about what I want in life. Working on myself is my top priority. Excellent article.