I didn't mean it to come off as it was all about me. I was expressing my experience. The good news is I still can thrive and survive if she does or does not make it about her.

That doesn't hold me back and I don't react to that anymore. I'm clear in what I need but the women who put forth that more effort to feel what's beyond what''s said will always go beyond the ordinary into the extraordinary in my book

I thank you very much for your thoughtful comment.